Introducing…
The 28-Day Siblings Without Battles Challenge
End Sibling Fights, Arguments, And Shouting Battles Without Having To Play A Referee Every Day
For the next 28 days, you’ll receive one email per day with ONE specific, actionable technique you can implement immediately (even in the middle of a sibling battle).
In the challenge, I’ll guide you through the complete ICE Framework:
Step 1: INTERRUPT – Stop Sibling Battles With Pattern-Breaking Strategies
In the heat of the battle, every second matters.
When your kids are screaming at each other, hitting or biting, there’s no time to think. You need to act.
You need to interrupt the behavior they are caught in with Pattern-Breaking Strategies. These are non-violent and empathic strategies that quickly defuse tense situations and reset emotions.
Here are some of the strategies you’ll learn in the first part of the challenge:
- The Language Swap: Instantly transform heated arguments into giggles by assigning your kids different languages to speak – breaking their emotional battle loop without you having to raise your voice or pick sides
- Power Token: Eliminate “it’s not fair” battles by giving your children control over important choices, teaching them strategic thinking while you finally stop playing referee
- Sibling Negotiation Skills: End the cycle of “It’s not FAIR!” without you having to pick sides or impose decisions both of your kids will resent
- The Public Pause Technique: How to regain control during public meltdowns without yelling or giving in
- The Funny Hats Technique: Turn your kids’ fierce battle into cooperative problem-solving by making them wear silly hats until they agree on a solution – they’ll instantly unite against their “common enemy” (you!) and work together just to get those ridiculous hats off their heads
These strategies are “quick fixes” that bring instant results. Most parents that use them reduce sibling battles by 70% in less than a week.
Step 2: CONNECT – Prevent Sibling Arguments And Fighting With Relationship-Building Strategies
If you want to prevent your kids from fighting in the first place, they need to get along better.
In other words, they need to improve their relationship.
But the time to do so is NOT during fights. It’s when they are both in a good mood.
That’s why I developed the Relationship-Building Strategies that create positive experiences between siblings.
They create a “team mentality” where they start to see each other as allies, not enemies.
Here are some of the strategies you’ll master in the second part:
- The Bug and Wish Method: Give your children the exact words they need to express frustrations without fighting. This method is perfect for ending “He took my toy!” arguments
- Aggression-Stopper: A simple physical technique that not only prevents the hitting but teaches your kids a healthier way to express their overwhelming emotions
- Shared Victory: End the constant competition for toys, attention, and privileges by showing your children how to achieve more together than they ever could alone
- How To Stop Fueling Sibling Rivalry with “fair and equal” treatment that actually makes your children constantly compare themselves to each other (this trains your kids to see each other as competitors rather than companions)
- The #1 Mistake That Makes Sibling Battles Worse and how to “flip the script” in 4 simple steps
As you implement these Relationship-Building Strategies, you’ll notice your children having moments of genuine enjoyment together. Sometimes, they’ll even start seeking each other out to play. This will further decrease the number of fights that happen in the first place.
Step 3: EMPOWER – Teach Your Kids How To Handle Disagreements on Their Own With Win-Win Strategies
This is the final piece of the puzzle.
And this is also where the real fun begins. Because once you help your kids develop the skill to work out through conflicts on their own, you’ll no longer have to play referee.
In the last part of the challenge, I’ll guide you through Win-Win Strategies that teach kids how to express their feelings and needs without angry outbursts, how to understand their brother or sister, and come up with a solution that works for both of them.
You’ll learn:
- Problem-Solving Huddle Technique: Put your children in charge of finding their own solutions to conflicts – watch them eagerly suggest creative options that work for both of them
- Conflict Commentary: End the impossible “who started it” detective work using this simple technique that helps children feel understood rather than accused
- The Intervention Bridge Technique: End yelling and screaming without separating your children. Instead, use these word-for-word scripts to teach your kids how to problem-solve on their own
- Ending Homework Squabbles: Create a distraction-free environment that helps your children complete homework without constant bickering
By the end of the 28 days, you’ll see your children using these skills naturally – handling small disagreements on their own while maintaining the warm connection you’ve helped them build.
You’ll finally be able to relax instead of constantly waiting for the next explosion, knowing that your children have the tools they need to navigate their relationship successfully.
BONUS Handbooks, Guides & Printables
I understand that implementing new parenting strategies while managing sibling battles isn’t easy.
That’s why I’ve created 5 powerful bonuses to support you throughout this journey.
These carefully designed resources will help you:
- Stay calm and composed during heated sibling conflicts (even when you’re exhausted)
- Manage strong-willed children who seem to fight more intensely than others
- Create quality family time that strengthens sibling bonds naturally
- Prevent misbehavior before it triggers another sibling battle
- Help your children process big emotions instead of taking them out on each other
- De-escalate conflicts quickly when they do arise
You’ll get these resources delivered immediately when you join the challenge, so you can start using them right away – even before Day 1 begins.
They’re designed to complement the ICE Framework perfectly, ensuring you have every tool you need to transform your children’s relationship from rivals to genuine friendship.
Regular Price: $49
Special Offer: $28 (you save 43%!)
